parents, can't live with them..can't live without them...,

parents, can't live with them..can't live without them..

i'm not sure what i think about my parents. a good parents should know what's best and whats not. parents should give some good advice and show their child some good example not vice versa, i know that we should respect elders and parents..but we all should know that parents are just human beings, they too can make mistakes just like me, just like you,




why parents should be strict to their children's ?

because the kid's will learn to respect their elders, and not grow up in a world where they think they can do "anything" they want,
it's understandable that parents should be strict to their kid's but how can you know that your parents are too strict ?


my parents used to be strict like any other parents , let's just say that im the only child so i guess it's normal for them to be strict to me...,some people say that i'm lucky because i dont have to share their love . to tell you the truth being an only child is not so great , yes..i got their full love and attention but growing up without brother or sister is not easy.


my experience of being an only child, well yes.. i got my own space, no brother or sister to bother me,
got my own room, my own things. my parents would gave me some money and i dont have to share it, but sometimes i do feel lonely , i do feel empty. it would be so great if i have brother or sister to to talk to , to compete and fight with.


my parents did gave me love and full attention. when they got money..they bought me things, they bought whatever i wanted like computer, mobile, toys etc and if they dont want to buy for me then i probably just snap or use my secret weapon - cry...i mean i did cry alot or fake it by putting water into my eyes , sometimes it work and sometimes it dont. :))

what i've got myself into?

i really don't know how it happened..., it was my offday from work and as usual i was watching tv when suddenly i heard my mobile rang. i picked up my mobile and saw a msg. it was a msg from my friend nina saying "hey can you help me, i really desperately needed your help..reply please" , i was confused



at first ..how desperate can she be ? i didn't reply her msg instead i just call her directly..

nina : "i have a problem and i dont know anyone else who can help me except you"

me : "what kinda problem?"

nina : "um..before that please dont be angry okay..."

me : "why ? is it something that can make me angry?"

nina : "promise me you wont be angry first~"

me : "okay i wont , now could you please spill it out"

nina : "okay ..umm..i accidently gave your mobile number to someone..and that someone probably will call you tonite..."

me ; "i see...so what's the big deal?"

nina : "you dont understand, this person always bothers me, asking for a date"

me : "then why dont you just go out with this person..end of story"

nina : "Duh~ you know i've got bf already besides this person really not my taste"

me : "okay..fine i will answer his calls ,so dont you worry about it.."

nina : "um~ it's not..."

me : " it's not what...?"

nina : " nothing.., just answer uh~ when this person calls k.."



the person did call me , so i answered it ... to tell you the truth..i was a bit surprised when i heard the person voice , it doesnt sound like a guy voice..infact it is a girl voice. "no..these girl probably got the wrong number" i thought to myself ,

"hello~ are you still there?" the girl at the end of the line asked me.

"yeah ~im still here ..well um i think you got the wrong number here.."

"...gee are you sure? coz nina gave me your number...yan is it?.."

"ah~ yeah..so..uh~ whats up?"

"nothing really...just wanna call you and say hai"

"uhuh?~ sorry but im a little curious here, you dont mind if i ask something?"

"yeah sure why not...what is it that you wanna know?"

"did you asked nina to go out on a date..for real?"

"yeah i did..but she'd turn me down"

"i see..~so...uh~ "

"oh yeah i forgot to intoduced myself to you..my name is amy"

5 foods that beat cancer

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broccoli

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Garlic

Has immune enhancing allium compounds that buffer the immune system to fight cancer. Diallyl sulphide, a component of garlic oil, has also been shown to render carcinogens in the liver inactive.




Red grapes

Contains bioflavonoids, powerful antioxidants that work as cancer preventives. Also, resveratrol which inhibits the enzymes that can stimulate cancer cell growth and suppress immune respomse.



Mushrooms

Varieties, such as shitake, maitake and reishi, appear to help the body fight cancer and build immunity. Also rich in lectin, a protein that attacks cancerous cells and prevents them from multiplying.




Tomatoes

Source of lycopene, an antioxidants that attacks free radicals that can trigger cancer. Apparently, tomatoes produce more lycopene in warmer weather.

collection of jokes

Q: what did the gangster's son tell his dad when he failed his examination?

A: Dad they questioned me for 3 hours but i never told them anything.



A teacher asked her class for sentences using the word "beans" ...

"My father grows beans" said one student

"My mother cooks beans" said another,

Then little johnny spoke up : " We are all human beans"





A fellow walked into a doctor's office and the receptionist asked him what he had. He said "Shingles." So she took down his name, address, medical insurance number and told him to have a seat.

A few minutes later a nurse's aid came out and asked him what he had. He said, "Shingles" , So she took down his height, weight, a complete medical history and told him to wait in the examining room.

Ten minutes later a nurse came in and asked him what he had. He said "Shingles." So she gave him a blood test, a blood pressure test, an electrocardiogram, told him to take off all his clothes and wait for the doctor.

fifteen minutes later the doctor came in and asked him what he had. He said, "Shingles." The doctor said "Where?".. He said, "Outside in the truck. Where do you want them?"




"Doctor, doctor! i'm terribly worried. I keep seeing pink stripe crocodiles every time t try to get to sleep."

"Have you seen a psychiatrist?"

"no...- i only seen pink stripe crocodiles"



A man speaks frantically into the phone, "My wife is pregnant, and her contractions are only two minutes apart!"

"Is this her first child?" the doctor queries.

"NO YOU IDIOT!" the man shouts, "THIS IS HER HUSBAND!"



Patient: " always see a blurry spots before my eyes."

Doctor: "here try these new glasses.'

Patient: "Sure , now i see the spots much clearer"

nice , caring or just plain annoying?

i thought that hanging out with you is difficult. when i was with a girl or with other guy friend , it was easy for me to open up and discussed about almost every single thing...talking about personal thing and when it comes to




hanging out with you i feel it's hard and complicated. Almost everytime hanging out or going out with you ..it's always me who do the talking, i often talked about my friends but you.., you never tell me anything about your friends..., now i'm not sure whether you don't want to talk about it or is it just that you don't have any friend other than me.., (that's sooo creepy)...i know deep down inside you're a nice guy, infact waaayy.. too nice for me.., like trying to open the door for me, asking and texting me nearly everyday and every night. i really appreciated that you care but come on it's annoying. everytime when i woke up in the morning.. my hp is full from your text msg and missed calls.

the meanest thing i ever said to an ex (potential stalker)

it's not that i'm heartless but lets face it, when your ex started to act like a potential stalker , texting nonstop and asking my friends around whether im currently seeing someone, asking these and that.., and sometimes to the point that im losing my patience, so i just say anything that come across my mind, here's some list that i said to him:



1. "could you stop bothering me, you're annoying like a bug"
2."stop texting me because your wasting my credit"
3."uh~ could you wait here while im flirting with some hot guy there~"
4."man~ that guy is hotter and better looking than you.."
5."i want a tiger not a chicken like you"
6."have you ever wonder why girls runaway from you?"
7."i must be real blind to actually date you before"
8."don't you have a mirror in your house?"
9."i'm not a piece of meat so stop acting like a horny pig"
10."could you please stop looking at the mirror, you're face still look the same , it'll never change",
11."oh look you're face is melting ,are you sure they do the plastic surgery right?"
12."does you're parent ever asks you to runaway?"
13."stop clinging on me so much..im not you're mother"


*despite what i said to him ... guess what .. he still won't give up...

we're just friends so stop asking!

after like three months knowing you as a friend , you still persistent as always , you keep asking me that same "i want you as a gf" , now this is me trying to explain why i shouldn't be his gf "i can't be your gf because if i do that you might get hurt, it's better to be friends , i think you should already know me by now.."



you started saying things like " i know you, thats why i want this badly, i dont want to lose you"

i smile and thought that you might lose me for real if you keep forcing me like these. "im sorry but ..i've got someone else that i want to be with" i said.

he looked at me with a confused face " what?~ who? do i know him by any chance?"

me: "no! no! i dont think you know him, he's my ex from highschool"

you: "i see.. ,"

me: "to tell you the truth, i still have feelings for him"

you: " but it's over right? so you should move on and you can't just wait for him forever"

me: "i know...!"

you: " so do i have a chance to be your bf?"

me: "i told you i dont have feelings for you , your like a brother to me thats all,"

you: "come on, give me a chance, we've known each other for a long time already...,please.."

me: " how can i accept you when i dont have feelings for you, im not attracted to you"

you: "okay, fine, i understand...so can we drop these and play badminton now,"


so we played badminton that afternoon as usual, badminton is my favourite game since primary school so whenever i play it , i can play like almost 2 or 3 hours. but unfortunately he only can take it for an hour. even when we're playing he would start a talk and some of it always begin with like this:


you: "hey, can we go out for a dinner tonite?"

me: "no!"

you: "these weekend if you're free can we watch a movie at the cinema?"

me: "no! why dont you watch it with your friends?"

you: "i want to watch it with you, besides its been a long time we didnt go out together"

me: "its that a date?"

you: "....no~"

me: "um well~ okay then but i will pay my own ticket"

you: "its okay, i'll pay for you ,"

me: "lets make a deal here, i'll pay mine or i wont go at all,"

you: "okay~ okay~"

we're just friends and nothing more!

first you asked me to be your friend,
then you asked me to be your special girlfriend,
not long after that you wanted me to marry you?
you even had these fantasy of having a baby with me,
come on..,
what's the rush?
is the world gonna end or something?




first of all, when you asked me to be your friend, i said to myself
whay not?, i mean ... having a friend is nice, so yeah...i accepted you for being
a friend...

then after couple of months, u started to change...
you try to get closer to me...
it's making me uncomfortable, but since you're a friend i thought it was normal
out of the blue , u surprised me by telling me..."can you be my gf?"
or "can i be your bf?"

i didn't give you any answer , so i change the subject quickly,
day after day , you keep coming and asking the same thing,
god..how annoying can you be, yes you're nice, yes you're gentlemen enough,
but no, i just cant imagine you being my bf,
yes im picky, so i think it's nothing wrong for me being picky,
if i wanna spent my whole day, or getting intimate with a guy,
then it should be the guy i wanna be with, the one i really love,
but still you keep asking ,

then when i told you " sorry , i can't be your gf, to be honest i wanted you as a friend and nothing more than that."
you try to change the subject but still i keep telling you " for real, im not interested in having relationship with you,
so you better stop asking me for a date"

you said "what? i'm only joking" and you smiled at me , i know from the way you smile, you're hiding your true
intentions, you try to pretend that it was nothing.

a week after that, you try to asked me the same question again. now im getting impatient...
i told you again and again "we're just friend, nothing gonna change!" you looked at me and said
"it's just a joke, ....besides i can wait"

i barely heard him and said "what? what you mean by that?"

you turn your face away and i heard your reply was "nothing!~"

"no it's not nothing, look..., try to understand..i had a bad relationship before , and i'm not ready to have
a relationship yet, so could you please stop joking around and asking me that question its annoying"

you stand up from the chair and you said " im sure it's in the past, besides people can change, i will wait for you..."

"whatever...! one more thing ... stop trying to hold my hand everytime we're going out! it's not a date!"